Romance Guidelines: Taking It Easy For Males

Copyright (c) 2011 Andrew Scherer

If you are a man, then you know that meeting and dating women is an awkward practice. It really shouldn't be though. It needs to be enjoyable, and it needs to be straightforward--having a small information under your hat, it will be. The secret, however, would be to not learn from trial and error simply because this may be a brutal procedure. Rather, it's very best to learn from men who have gone prior you. Males who've already learned the ropes and have some information that they can pass on.

So needless to say, the very first step in acquiring the girl's phone number and for all too numerous men, this alone is really a challenging approach. Once again though, it need not be, just as long as you take the proper approach. Now, what you might find surprising is that if carried out right, women tend to respond much better to commands instead of requests. So what's worked for me in the past is to just ask a woman if she has a pen plus a tiny piece of paper. Soon after she produces, it just tell her to write her number down. Works like a charm.

There's an additional thing you may wish to try that has worked for me in the past. That is right after they give you their number, try taking them on what I like to call an imaginary date. That is that you sit and talk to her about what you plan on doing on this date if you do call her. Speak in detail, such that she pictures in her head the both of you on this date, and when it is completed the proper way, by the time you are through, she will have formed an emotional bond with you and is a lot more probable to go home with you that night.

So then the next question is where's the best place to take a girl on a date? And the answer is easy. Straight home to your residence, and then on into your bedroom. That's the end objective and it may be carried out in a way that can save lots of cash and time. So what I advise men to do right after they pick up the girl they're going to take out is to simply tell her that you forgot your wallet at home and that you need to stop back there and pick it up. Then the next step after pulling into your driveway is to invite her in for a quick drink.

Then one more thing you could try that has been shown to work in the past is to swing by grocery store to do a little shopping with your date. The reason here is that when she shops with you in the grocery store, it will work to put her in the mindset that you're more than just on a date. That you're in fact lovers. Not only will it make her more receptive to your request for her to go home with you, but you are able to even pick up something to prepare together there, which in turn triggers much more thoughts of "domesticity" in her brain.

Don't ever forget that the object of taking a girl on a date is to have sex with her. Like it or not. That's the way nature made it. Now for sure, there may be some romance and social games that come into play as well, but really in the end if there's no sex, then what's it all for? So your goal should be to get to the sex portion as speedily, proficiently and affordably as possible. What you do not want is always to be "strung along".


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